I wonder, if we are all mortals and bound to die, why
does fear of what is to be grip us all so mercilessly. The only possible answer is that this existence is the only
one that you get, atleast as you, yourself - notwithstanding rebirth. And while
it can be so very glorious in every way, it can be equally miserable. Sometimes
because of things we can control and sometimes because of things we cannot. The
things we cannot control can be fortunate or unfortunate but beyond us.
Therefore, we try to control things that we possibly can, to make the weighted
average of this life a beautiful affair. And in that need to control lies our
misery and our fears. What if things don’t go as per plan? What if my future isn’t
as good as I thought it would be? So, what if? Maybe what we do not realize is
that what we think we can control is also a subset of things we cannot. It is
but an illusion. And we waste away our lives fearing what was never really in
our control anyway. Fear therefore is a phantom. How would we function, if we knew that nothing – absolutely nothing was ever in our control; that everything was assigned a
random probability. OR, maybe somewhere in our partially disillusioned minds we
all know this fact, and fear all that we think we can control but cannot?